Family and children
Legal help when parenting time is being obstructed
Is the other parent preventing contact with your child or failing to follow an agreement or court decision concerning parenting time? Our lawyers help you assess the situation, gather the relevant documentation, and determine the appropriate legal steps with the child’s best interests in mind.
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What is interference with parenting time?

Interference with parenting time is a general term for situations in which one parent prevents or obstructs the child’s contact with the other parent without a valid reason. It is not a separate legal term defined in the Swedish Children and Parents Code.
Examples may include:
- repeatedly canceling agreed parenting time
- refusing to hand over the child as required by an agreement or decision
- obstructing contact by phone or video
- withholding information needed for parenting time
- involving the child in the parents’ conflict
The child’s best interests are always the deciding factor in matters involving custody, residence, and parenting time. A child has the right to maintain contact with a parent they do not live with, provided that the contact is consistent with the child’s best interests.
Canceled or restricted parenting time does not automatically constitute interference. If there is a specific risk of violence, abuse, abduction, or other harm, the child’s safety must take priority.
What should you do if parenting time is being obstructed?
Start by documenting events objectively and consistently. Save written communications and record scheduled, completed, and canceled parenting time. Include any explanations provided by the other parent.
Relevant documentation may include:
- judgments, decisions, and approved parenting time agreements
- text messages, emails, and other written communications
- dated notes describing what happened
- information from schools, social services, or healthcare providers
- previous custody, residence, or parenting time assessments
Keep your communication respectful and focused on the child. Separate facts you have personally observed from information provided by someone else.
If no binding agreement or decision exists, the municipal family law services may help the parents reach an agreement. A written parenting time agreement becomes legally binding when approved by the municipal social welfare committee.
Enforcement when a decision is not followed
If a judgment, decision, or approved agreement is not being followed, you may apply to the district court for enforcement.
The court will generally try to help the parents reach a voluntary solution first. In certain circumstances, it may attach a conditional fine to its decision. The child’s best interests remain the primary consideration, and enforcement cannot take place if it would clearly conflict with the child’s best interests.
If the circumstances have changed, the custody, residence, or parenting time arrangement may also need to be reconsidered.
Can interference affect child custody?
Repeated and unjustified interference may be relevant when a court considers custody. The court may assess each parent’s ability to prioritize the child’s needs and take joint responsibility for matters affecting the child.
Interference does not automatically result in sole custody or any other predetermined outcome. The court makes an individual assessment based on the child’s best interests and all relevant circumstances.
How we can help you
We assess the situation and help you choose the appropriate course of action based on the child’s needs and the available documentation.
Legal assessment
We review the circumstances, explain the applicable rules, and help you understand your options.
Review of documentation
We examine decisions, agreements, messages, and other documents relevant to the parenting time issue.
Enforcement applications
If a binding decision or approved agreement is not followed, we assess the grounds for enforcement and help prepare the application.
Custody and parenting time disputes
We help prepare your case and represent you in proceedings involving custody, the child’s residence, or parenting time.
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Schedule a 15-minute meeting with a lawyer to review and discuss your situation.
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Book an appointment with one of our lawyers when you need an assessment of obstructed parenting time, help with documentation, or representation in an enforcement, custody, residence, or parenting time matter.
Wazima M. Aga
Lawyer
Wazima is deeply committed to protecting individual rights and practices immigration law, administrative law, social welfare law, family law, and contract law. She speaks Swedish, English, Persian, and Dari.
Matilda Selander Persson
Lawyer
Matilda primarily works with employment law, business law, contract law, family law, and migration law. She speaks Swedish and English.
Aja Wadii
Lawyer
Aja specializes in migration law, family law, and criminal law. In addition to Swedish and English, Aja also speaks Arabic.
Nadja Hatem
Lawyer
Nadja works within family law – mainly custody disputes and international child abduction cases. She has also worked in criminal law. She speaks Swedish, English, and Arabic.
Anuta Sjunghamn
Lawyer
Anuta works in migration law – primarily handling asylum cases. She also assists with family law disputes and criminal cases. Anuta speaks Swedish, English and Persian.
Mirella Nunes Siqueira
Consulting lawyer
Mirella specializes in business law, financial family law, employment law, and consumer law. She speaks Swedish, English, Portuguese, and Spanish.
Aleksandar Milic
Consulting lawyer
Aleksandar Milic specializes in business law and family law and also serves as legal counsel in LVU cases. He speaks Swedish, Serbian, Croatian, and Bosnian.
FAQ
Frequently asked questions about umgängessabotage
It is not a separate criminal offense under Swedish law and does not carry a specific penalty. However, the conduct may affect decisions concerning custody, residence, and parenting time.
Save written communications, decisions, and agreements. Keep consistent records of scheduled, completed, and canceled parenting time.
Repeated and unjustified interference may affect the custody assessment, but it does not automatically result in sole custody. The court considers all relevant circumstances and the child’s best interests.
If a judgment, decision, or approved agreement exists, you may apply to the district court for enforcement. We help review the documentation and prepare the application.
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